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Relationship

Articles exploring relationship patterns, communication, and the experiences that shape our connections.

Relational Trauma and Healing

Relational Trauma and Healing: understanding the impact and steps towards recovery Some wounds don’t come from a single shocking event.

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Building Death Literacy in Singapore

Building Death Literacy in Singapore Conversations on Death and Dying: Finding Healing in Honest Dialogue   The Silence Around Death

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Talking about feelings

Reflections from the therapy room – talking about feelings Why it’s hard to talk about feelings (even in therapy) As

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The Quiet Ache of Loneliness

Reflections from the therapy room – The Quiet ache of loneliness Loneliness Isn’t Always Obvious When Loneliness Feels Heavy A

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Developmental Trauma: Invisible Wounds

Developmental Trauma: Recognising the Invisible Wounds and Reclaiming Your Life Understanding the subtle ways early emotional neglect and unmet needs

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Understanding Developmental Trauma

Trauma & Recovery Understanding Developmental Trauma How early experiences shape emotional health in this article   From the outside, someone

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Counselling Services FAQ

what is counselling & psychotherapy

Counselling and psychotherapy provide a confidential space to explore emotional difficulties, life experiences and recurring patterns with a trained professional. The terms are often used interchangeably.

Counselling is a very broad term used in conjunction with many types of advice giving. In the context of mental health counselling, counsellors rarely offer outright advice. It is an active process of supporting clients to understand and resolve their what may be causing them difficulties.

Psychotherapy may involve more in-depth work with longstanding patterns or past experiences.

The approach taken can be adapted according to your needs and goals.

What to expect at the first session

The first session gives you space to share what has brought you to counselling and what you hope may become different.

Your counsellor may ask questions to understand your situation and discuss possible ways of working together.

You are also welcome to raise any questions or concerns, and you will not be expected to disclose everything immediately.

It is also normal to feel anxious or somewhat apprehensive about speaking to a stranger for the first time. If at any moment, the experience does not feel right for you, do let your counsellor know.

How long does 1 session last

Individual counselling sessions last 60 minutes.

When it is necessary, and when possible, extension beyond the 60 minutes session can be discussed with your therapist

how many sessions will i need

This differs from person to person.
Some people benefit from shorter-term counselling focused on a particular concern, while others choose longer-term work for more complex or longstanding difficulties.

Your progress and needs can be reviewed periodically, with the frequency and number of sessions adjusted where appropriate.

It is worth noting that it may take a few sessions to build up the rapport and trust necessary for therapy to work.

Is counselling or psychotherapy suitable for me

People seek counselling for many reasons. You may be experiencing emotional distress, trying to understand recurring patterns, coping with a difficult experience or transition, improving your relationships, or seeking greater self-understanding. You do not need to have a diagnosis or wait until things become overwhelming before asking for support.

If you are uncertain, a free 20-minute consultation allows you to briefly discuss what you are looking for, ask questions about counselling and get an initial sense of whether the counsellor may be a suitable fit for you. If another type of support appears more appropriate, the counsellor can also discuss this with you.

What is the therapeutic relationship

The relationship with your counsellor is an important part of therapy because counselling often involves discussing experiences, emotions or patterns that may be difficult to share.

The therapeutic relationship differs from all other relationships you have. This relationship meant for you to feel respected, understood and emotionally safe enough to make it easier to speak openly, explore uncomfortable areas.

A good therapeutic relationship does not mean that every session will feel comfortable. Trust often develops over time. What matters is that you feel able to communicate honestly and work collaboratively with your counsellor

is counselling confidential

Information shared during counselling is treated as private and confidential. Exceptions may apply when there is a serious risk of harm to you or someone else, or when disclosure is required by law. Your counsellor can explain these limits at the beginning of therapy.

We adhere fully to the requirements of the Data Protection Act and the ethical framework set out by the SAC (Singapore Association of Counsellors) and APAC (Association for Psychotherapist and Counsellors).

what are your rates & cancellation policy

Information on our fees and cancellation policy can be found on our fees page.

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“Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awak “Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” — Carl Jung
When we focus only on the external world (what others expect of us, material success, appearances), we can live in illusions or borrowed identities. But Jung reminds us that true awakening doesn’t come from the outside. True awareness and growth come from introspection, exploring our unconscious, our thoughts, feelings, and the parts of ourselves we usually keep hidden and facing our inner truths.
Looking within can be uncomfortable, but it’s also where real clarity and growth begin.
#Counselling #Psychotherapy #MentalHealthAwareness #HealingJourney
#EmotionalWellness #AnxietySupport #gentlemindsg #MentalHealthSG #SingaporeTherapist #Singaporecounselling
When we are feeling overwhelmed, it can be hard se When we are feeling overwhelmed, it can be hard see the future ... 
Imagine you're in a dense, fog-covered forest. You can barely see a few steps ahead of you. If you try to look too far into the distance, you’ll only see more fog and might feel overwhelmed by the uncertainty. But if you focus on the small circle of light created by your lantern, you can clearly see the next few steps you need to take. As you move forward, the lantern illuminates more of the path, allowing you to progress steadily and safely through the forest.

In the same way, by concentrating on the present day and the immediate tasks at hand, you can navigate life's challenges more effectively, without being overwhelmed by the unknown future.
#sgmentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #counsellingsingapore #psychotherapysingapore #gentlemindsg #hope #overwhelmed
#mentalhealthmatters #counsellingsingapore #psycho #mentalhealthmatters #counsellingsingapore #psychotherapysingapore #therapyresources
Peter Levine, a well-known expert in the field of Peter Levine, a well-known expert in the field of trauma therapy and developer of the Somatic Experiencing (SE) approach, recommends the "Voo breathing" technique as part of his Somatic Experiencing approach to trauma healing. 

This practice is intended to help calm the nervous system, by facilitating the release of pent-up tension or trauma held in the body.

The "Voo breathing" technique can be useful for regulating the vagus nerve, which plays a crucial role in the parasympathetic nervous system and is involved in the body's relaxation response. 

In short, the technique involves making a long, deep "voo" sound while exhaling.

 To start, take a slow, even, deep breath in through your nose, focus on expanding your abdomen and chest as you inhale, allowing your body to fill with air.
 As you exhale, make a long, deep steady "voo" sound from deep in your gut. It may take some practice to find a comfortable pitch for you.
 As you make the sound, imagine the vibration traveling through your body, particularly in your chest and abdomen. Feel the sensation of the sound as it resonates within you.
 Continue the cycle of inhaling deeply and exhaling with the "voo" sound for several minutes. You can repeat the process for as long as it feels comfortable and beneficial.
#gentlemindsg #somaticbreathing #mentalhealthawareness #counsellingsingapore
Give someone you care about a hug today! Hugs are Give someone you care about a hug today!
Hugs are a beautiful way to express love, care, and support, do approach them with sincerity, mindfulness and most importantly be respectful of a person’s boundaries.
#gentlemindsg #mentalhealthmatters #counsellingsingapore #psychotherapysingapore #
Make your mind a priority, because your well-being Make your mind a priority, because your well-being matters.
Mental health is an integral part of our overall well-being. Just as we prioritize physical health to live a fulfilling life, it pays to also prioritize mental health. Good mental health allows us to function effectively, cope with the stresses of life, and maintain healthy relationships.
#mentalhealthawareness #singaporecounselling #counsellorsingapore #gentlemindsg #psychotherapysingapore
Thinking errors, are patterns of biased or irratio Thinking errors, are patterns of biased or irrational thinking or beliefs that can negatively impact our lives. By identifying and challenging these distortions, we can cultivate a more balanced and rational mindset. Addressing thinking errors can lead to more accurate perceptions and enhance our emotional well-being.
This quote is attributed to the 13th-century poet This quote is attributed to the 13th-century poet Rumi, it beautifully encapsulates a profound idea about the nature of love and personal growth. 

This quote encourages introspection and self-awareness as essential steps on the journey toward love. 

It invites us to explore the inner landscape of our hearts and minds, uncovering and dismantling the walls that we've erected out of fear or pain. 

In essence, the quote reminds us that love is not something to be chased after or sought outside of ourselves but rather a state of being that arises when we remove the obstacles that obstruct its flow. It's a call to inner transformation and healing, paving the way for love to enter our lives naturally and effortlessly.

#healing#gentlemindsg#counsellingsingapore#psychotherapysingapore#relationshipcounselling#attachment#mentalhealthcounselling#rumiquotes#gentlemindcounselling&psychotherapy
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For Immediate support in a crisis

If you or anyone you know are in need of immediate help, or facing a life-threatening situation, call 995 or go to the nearest hospital A&E.

If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts or need immediate emotional support, contact Samaritans of Singapore (SOS):

  • 24-hour hotline: 1767

  • 24-hour CareText via WhatsApp: 9151 1767

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Our counsellors are fully qualified, experienced and professionally accredited by Association for Psychotherapists & Counsellors Singapore (APACs), and/or Singapore Association for Counselling (SAC). We are fully committed to continuous learning and professional development

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